Relocations stressful but moving out after you have broken up things with your significant other can be painful, frustrating and uncomfortable. This is why we decided to present to you several pointers which can ease the experience and make it more bearable.
Try to supress your emotions
Regardless of who initiated the break up, emotions will be high and this may have devastating consequeunces for your property and belongings. This is why you should try your best to neglect your feelings and act as decent and professional as possible when you sit down with your former partner and dicuss who will keep what.
Divided your possessions
Try to be as amibale as possible during this stage of your break up. Gather your mutual belongings and decide who takes what. For example if you`re into sports and your ex isn’t you should take all the sporting gear while you leave to her/him items that you don’t need. The entire endeavour will be painful but the quicker you get it done the faster you will be able to let it go and commence living your new lives.
Sell or donate all items that you cannot divide
Some of the objects that you own will be the subject of arguments of who should keep them. The best way to deal with this situation is to sell or donate these items. This way you will have the peace of mind that you did something good or be able to divide the earned money more easily. In both cases none of you will have a grudge towards the other for not letting go of a particular object.
Allow your ex to buy you out
If donating or selling problematic items isn’t an option, give your former parter to chance to buy you out. Evaluate some of the items that you both want and name your price. Keep in mind that there will be some haggling througout the process but if you both managet to supress your emotions you will certainly be able to reach an aggreement.
Hire professional movers
Moving out of a place which you called home isn’t easy. This is why it would be better if you hire man and van contractors for the actual relocaiton as they won’t have any emotional attachments and will be able to quickly pack, load and haul your possessions to your new address. If you are living in a hotel or your new place is too small for all your belongings, know that you can use the highed end storage services of Buser Group until you find a proper accomodations which fit all your items.
Call your family and friends
Once you have moved away, your emotions will take the better of you and it is at that moment that you should turn toward your closes people such as:
- Friends from childhood or college
- Friends from work
Take good care of yourself
The best way to heal is to take good care of yourself instead of feeling selfpity. Plan and go on a vacation, visit your favourite nightclub, attend a concert of your preferred band, do something new and last but not least don’t bottle up your feelings, it is perfectly okay to feel sad and lonely from time to time.